Disclaimer.....I'm grouchy and very pissed right now. So what I'm about to say may be harsh and may come across as ugly. But oh freakin well...I need to vent so I'm gonna do it!
Do men have any idea what it's like to be a woman? Do they even care? I just don't understand how a man can not understand how important weddings and babies are to women. As a child, my sister and I played with Barbies, our Barbies had the most lavish weddings! We even sewed gorgeous wedding gowns and matching bridesmaids dresses, we even made them gorgeous bouquets. Then they drove off with Ken in their very pink corvette and lived happily ever after. This was my dream minus the pink corvette...to someday meet a man who was gonna let me have the wedding of my dreams. So what the hell happened? When did I become such a pushover? When did I lose my inner bitch diva that would stand up and scream," I deserve this and no I won't get married until I get it" Who the hell knows...all I know is that I've been married twice and have yet to have my wedding. My day.
My advice to any single women out there. Don't give up your dream of the perfect day. Or the perfect family. I believe it's out there, and I also believe that if a man truly loves you he will move heaven and earth to give you the few things that you ask for. As women and mothers and wives we sacrifice constantly. We don't need to be absolutley spoiled everyday, but there are a few key moments in a girls life where things just needs to be right. Right down to the last perfect detail. Or it will forever haunt you and bother you. My advice to men.....just the hell up and color, if your woman wants 20 bridesmaids and a 12 tier cake you better make that shit happen. It's one day.....give it to her!!